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  1. MiDri

    MiDri New Member

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    Well... I just got home about an hour ago and I've been in pretty much shock sense I got back.

    About 10 minutes after getting home (been visiting my parents.) The girl that lives below me came up and rang my doorbell. Normally this means my music is to loud or something of that nature -- but I was not playing music?... I answered the door and inquired about what I could do for her? She grinned and kissed me square on the lips and then ran back downstairs. ...?... Took me a good minute to relies what had happened and then wonder back into my apartment. About 20 minutes later she came up again and asked if I had a girlfriend (She was kinda nervous that I might have had one and she done something she shouldest have, so her voice told me) I told her no and she grabbed me and we made out for a minute and she went back down stairs. You see here lies the problem -- she's got a kid, I don't really like kids -- I just barely take care of my self...

    Anyway... ya?... Almost a penthouse forum letter... almost...
     
  2. Trusteft

    Trusteft HH's Asteroids' Dominator

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    How old are you two? How old is the kid?
    Do you know if she sees anyone else? I don't like the idea of making out suddently with a stranger. You don't know where her mouth has been earlier that day.

    Still, I would say, go for it. Just make sure you use protection, and I don't just mean pills. Use condoms.




    EDIT: I almost forgot...YOU LUCKY BASTARD!
     
  3. Dyre Straits

    Dyre Straits 10 Grandkids -2 Great-grandsons

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    Whatever happened to flirting first?

    I'd be very cautious about this gal. Seems something's just not quite right about this. She already has one kid. Think she might have another in the oven?
     
  4. OmegaRED

    OmegaRED Relapsed Gamer

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    Be wary of any chick that makes out with strangers, unless you're an irresistible guy and this kinda stuff happens often.
     
  5. MiDri

    MiDri New Member

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    It happens a lot in my head, does that count?



    I'm 21 and I have no idea how old she is -- probably 24-26? The kids walking so what ever that means? I hate kids -- the thing is, she lives right below me! I have to walk by her door to leave! lol.
     
  6. Dowaco

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    Too good to be true usually means just that. I would take it cautiously. That's not usually the way a girl tells you she is interested. But I am the suspicious type. There are lots of scenarios where she is trying to use you (as a protector, a provider, to make someone else jealous, etc) But shy girl next door stealing a kiss does not fit unless she was drunk.
    The one situation that would be good for you is that she was horny and lonely and had her eye on you for a while. You have to decide if that's what happened.
     
  7. Judas

    Judas Obvious Closet Brony Pony

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    Either A: Playing truth or dare with here kids.. lol (rotfl)


    or

    B: .....she.... *cough*..... if you catch my drift ... at the time..... perhaps will pass and come again down the road.
     
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    Geminiwave I Have lovely Breasts

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    or maybe shes just been holdin onto a crush for a long time.

    heres the deal. follow your instincts. and I dont mean the one that goes "Mmmm put it in!"

    so yea. just be careful. Ive been in situations like this before but i was much younger than you are now. soooooo...honestly I dunno what to tell ya man. This is a tough one. just dont rush into anything. if you're uncomfortable, follow that. dont do anything that you think you shouldnt do.
     
  9. MrSpock2002

    MrSpock2002 Because I said so!

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    Well from experience, be careful. I've gone in debt over a simaliar situation.

    And if you do slide it in, either use the poopshoot, or rubber.
     
  10. YAYitsAndrew

    YAYitsAndrew Anti-Piracy Poster Boy

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    do her in the hallway
     
  11. Vikingod

    Vikingod Int'l Fish Liaison

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    Hmm, some interesting advice in here today.

    Question for you, does she do alot of drugs that you know of? The whole "kiss a total stranger and run" thing, while cute, isn't a common characteristic of a 26 year old mommy. More like the 19 year old college chick. And who was with the kid while the two of you were having at it? Seems pretty irresponsible to me. I'd be warry of anything she offers. The Venus in Furs situation, though extremely tempting, can have some dire consiquences. A level head usually prevails and lasts a little longer.
     
  12. Judas

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    Seriously, if you can't leave a kid, for 30 minutes, imo that's sad. (enless it's a freaking baby baby.....)

    2-3 year olds and up, a full hour or better left alone is just fine.
     
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    Vikingod Int'l Fish Liaison

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    :wtf:

    I hope like hell you never have children.
     
  14. Judas

    Judas Obvious Closet Brony Pony

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    Why? Cause i won't have the umbilical cord tied around me.
     
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    Lelisevis Howlin at the moon

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    Judas Obvious Closet Brony Pony

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    Vikingod Int'l Fish Liaison

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    No, because you think its ok for someone to leave their kids alone for an hour while they go upstairs and make out with a total stranger.

    anyway, not to thread jack, I digress.
     
  18. Trusteft

    Trusteft HH's Asteroids' Dominator

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    I agree. The parent should not be with the kid all the freaking time. Let the kid grow up.
     
  19. Dyre Straits

    Dyre Straits 10 Grandkids -2 Great-grandsons

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    Judas, just so know, in our area if a child is left alone and under the age of 11, it could be considered child endangerment to leave that child unattended for any length of time. I've raised four and now have grandkids. Any child that can walk around can get into all kinds of mischief in the blink of an eye.

    So, it was irresponsible for this gal to leave that child and go out for any purpose. If she smokes, it's all right to step outside her own door to smoke, but not to leave the vicinity as she apparently did and went to another floor from her own apartment.

    Same for you, BlueMak. You guys don't have any clue about raising kids.
     
  20. Vikingod

    Vikingod Int'l Fish Liaison

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    Wow, this thread is freaking horrifying. Thanks for the sanity Dire.
     

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